Shake My Booties

friends of mine and Shorty’s are having issues. Serious issues. This couple I will call Whitney and Bobby (after the tumultuous relationship drama of Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown) So Whitney and Bobby had a HUGE fight today when they came over after taking Shorty to drive T.M. back home. It was over something stupid and pointless but Bobby is a complete asshole… no jokes. The first time I met them he was a complete ass, making extremely rude and crude jokes and embarrassing the hell out of Whitney. She has, recently, started to get a back bon and started to tell him to shut up and whatnot so that is a good sign. Oh, fyi, they’re engaged! Back to the story. They had a huge blowout and were screaming and yelling at each other in our suite, in the hallways, in the elevator, and still at the front desk when Shorty had to sign them out. Whitney left, and apparently ran, the beginnings of the way home (Bobby has a car and they drove here). After that, Shorty came out to tell me that Bobby had asked for the ring back. He was being a complete asshole and blaming the entire fight on Whitney who had no idea “what she had done wrong”. Both me and Shorty were telling her that she did nothing wrong, she was even apologizing for the way Bobby had acted to me! I told her that he should be the one apologizing since he was the one being the dick, not her. 

Me and Shorty have been telling her that she needed to get out of the relationship, this is starting to go down the path of an abusive relationship. Whitney told us that he even said he would kill himself if she left him! How stupid do you have to be to say that, really? So here is a little background info: Bobby always has to know where Whitney is, he always texts her to find out, whenever a guy talks to Whitney he starts asking her if she likes him and is gonna cheat, he makes really crude sexual jokes to her in front of us… basically he is the epitome of an obsessive-stalker asshole. 

I told her today that she should get out, I know the route these things take. My sister went through the same shit but stayed with the guy for 4+ years (she is still with him but thats an entirely different story and the reason why I have cut my sister out of my life) and she is completely fucked up and has some tons of issues. I told Whitney that she needs to GET OUT! NOW! Throw the ring at him and run! I don’t want to see things get any worse, I’m scared he might turn physical soon. Shorty told me she has already seen Bobby grab Whitney’s arm and yank her back when she tries to walk away from a fight. This is going down a road where no one should have to go. But yet she stays, and I hope that this relationship does not last, that they do not end up taking their wedding vows, and that Whitney just GETS THE FUCK OUT! No one should have to put up with that shit, no one. Shorty was telling me that Whitney and Bobby were arguing the whole ride up here on Friday when they went to pick up T.M. 

And it seems like, of course, Bobby is the one always picking the fights. And Whitney just puts up with it. Please Whitney, get out! 

Pray that Whitney gets the message and leaves Bobby’s sorry ass for someone who will treat her like she’s an actual person and not something to be owned. I have done all that I can, me and Shorty have offered Whitney a place to crash if she ever gets up the nerve to leave. Something else to add, Whitney didn’t even realize that Bobby was obsessed with her. It never clued in that all his text messaging and constant need to be with her/near her could be a sign of something more serious. He is far to over-protective. I really hope that it doesn’t escalate to something more damaging, I really do.

Right now all I can do is pray that reality will hit Whitney on the head and she’ll realize that she can do better. Until then all,

Later days!